Kindness
Nonprofit leaders, fundraisers, and storytellers are often overburdened, under-resourced, and holding far more emotional weight than their job descriptions acknowledge.
Kindness, in my work, does not mean avoiding hard conversations or lowering standards. It means rejecting shame as a teaching tool.
I’m not here to tell you everything you’re doing wrong. I am here to walk alongside you as you build systems, language, and practices that reduce harm and increase dignity. I will celebrate your care, your growth, and your willingness to pause and do things differently, even when it’s uncomfortable.
Kindness creates the conditions for lasting change.
Empathy
This work lives at the intersection of trauma, power, identity, and systems.
I approach storytelling with deep empathy for the realities people are navigating, including story owners, audiences, and the storytellers (you) themselves. I trust that people are often doing the best they can inside systems that reward urgency, extraction, and oversimplification.
Empathy, for me, means holding space for complexity and multiple truths. It means understanding that fear, resistance, burnout, and missteps are often trauma responses, not moral failures.
At the same time, empathy does not mean neutrality. I can understand how harm happens while still naming it and working to repair it.
Grace
Trauma-informed storytelling is not a destination. It is an ongoing practice of unlearning, relearning, and repairing.
Wherever you are on your journey, I meet you there with grace. I believe people can grow without being shamed into silence or perfection. I create spaces where it is safe to say, “I didn’t know this then,” and brave to say, “I want to do better now.”
Grace also means acknowledging that harm will happen, even with the best intentions. What matters is how we respond. Do we listen, repair, and change? Or do we defend, minimize, and move on?
I choose the former, again and again.
Social Justice and Accountability
Trauma does not exist in a vacuum. It is shaped by systems, histories, and power.
My work is explicitly grounded in a commitment to social justice, including anti-racism and the dismantling of white supremacy in nonprofit storytelling and beyond. I believe many traditional storytelling practices have upheld harmful narratives, saviorism, and extraction, especially from Black, Indigenous, immigrant, disabled, and marginalized communities.
I name myself as a messy ally. I do not claim perfection or arrival. I am committed to learning in public, being accountable when I get it wrong, and anchoring my work in practices that redistribute power, center consent, and honor agency.
Trauma-informed storytelling is not just about being careful with stories. It’s about changing the systems that decide whose pain is profitable, whose healing is rushed, and whose voices are believed.
This work asks us to slow down, tell fewer stories, and tell them with more care. And it asks us to choose safety and dignity, even when it costs us ease or speed.
That is the work I am committed to.